IF walls in lodges could talk, they might have a few cautionary tales about what happens before some married men die on top of their side chicks. However, Mary Bwalya, alias Mama Chikamoneka, a traditional marriage counsellor, says men should stop chasing pleasure in such places, warning that these scandals leave their wives humiliated and too ashamed to properly mourn during the funeral. Bwalya says women are also to blame for men leaving home for side chicks in lodges, because many today drink too much alcohol, smoke Nsunko, and neglect their hygiene and appearance, making themselves less attractive to their husbands. Speaking on BMTV’s “Ilyashi”, Bwalya said promiscuous sexual behaviour in the country have become worse. “My name is Mary...
