PRESIDENT Hakainde Hichilema has advised married couples to be tolerant of each other and to avoid checking their spouses’ phones frequently, which he says leads to polarisation of marriages. And Paramount Chief Mpezeni of the Ngoni people has insisted that traditional leaders work with the government of the day. Speaking when he hosted Paramount Chief Mpezeni at Community House yesterday, President Hichilema said the recently revealed divorce statistics were unfortunate. “We marry for love, we don’t marry to go and check each other out, or to go and point a finger ‘why you are different from me’. Husband pointing finger at wife that she doesn’t cook well. Who said our mothers were the best cooks? But we took their food....